My time is running out…Age is not a factor?

Just when you think age is not catching up on you…think again!


Symptoms of old age:

1. Jumbling up of words

Parking + Marketing = Park-eting

We were on the way to Pavillion the other day. The 3 musketeers – ZH, B and I went finding for parking. When we just missed out on one, I randomly said:

“Don’t worry la, sure can find parketing…opps..Parking. haha.”

And a few other mixed up words, I can’t seem to remember. I was totally in my sound mind. Hmm, now makes you wonder if I had proper teaching since..kindy, primary school?


2. Lines, creases, bags and whatever nots…

Sheer sign of old age…when you actually grow older! A little extra lines here and there, even from smiling or laughing gives you a few more wrinkles. Eye bags that go deep just below the eye from those inevitable late nights (yes Zhen Han, life does not treat me well in that way T.T). A few scars and bruises here and there, hence the ‘colourful’ me (haih, I’m that clumsy unfortunate) To think that I’m getting older, more like I’m reverting back to my childhood life! haha.


3. Forget-me-nots

If I give you that I-think-I-know-you-look-familiar look, please excuse me. I probably am figuring out where I have seen you before and or in the midst of trying to dig out some memory of a name. Again, not my intention, I’m just simply getting old! Or maybe it’s just my bad memory of names and faces =p


4. Mother no. 2

When you speak like your mother! This includes all the older generation lingo and old grandmother tales that you keep reminding others…

“I’ve eaten more salt than you do rice.”
“Let’s bring our whole gene gang!’ (wonder if that’s the right spelling…)
“Aiya, kids nowadays…” *shakes head*

5. Reminiscence of the old times

“Haih, those we the days when we used to do…this…and …that…”
“Remember when we…bla bla bla…”

As if time is on its stand still as we speak. No, time waits for no man, so move
on forward!

6. Countless reunions and gatherings

People only do gather when they have not seen each other for a very long time. But nowadays, reunions are done almost every week! Hmm, wonder if it’s just an excuse to meet…


7. Misplacement of articles

It starts first with small little nick nacks that lie loosely around the house. Never forgetting, the times you used to call your cell just to find out where it is. Then it goes on to appointments you unintentionally miss- making the use of a ‘diary cum appointment/ agenda for the week’ necessary.


8. Frequent relation of stories/ constant reminders of old age

The relation of the same story to the same party on several occasions.

“Oh, did I tell you about the time I…”
“I did? Hmm..”

“Haih, this year twenty-one already, I feel so old”

And boy, don’t you feel old! Amazing how powerful words are, especially with self-admittance. Note to those who ARE old out there: do not live in denial!

And for those who ARE older than me…

“Please la, if you’re old, then what am I?”

(an older human, maybe? =p)

9. Early bird/ fatigue and tiredness/boredom/lack of stamina

Those who know me well would know that I sometimes can get high (no, not on anything) for nothing. It’s just one of those moments, after a certain hour that I just get a lil’ perky, so to speak (probably on those late nights, which are extremely rare) Note to self: oh now it makes sense!

Nowadays, I can’t get pass a day without escaping a yawn. Don’t be offended if it was ‘performed’ in your presence, people! I am first tired, before I get bored. My attention span is also shortening, which makes it harder for me to stay occupied and satisfied.

Even very much before the striking of midnight you can see the fatigue/tiredness taking its toll on me. That is probably why I call my night early and then wake up early in the morning. Sounds like something your old folks would do, ay? I couldn’t agree more =) Oh well…the early bird does catch the worm.

Also, the tennis marathons we used to do last time. All the way from 8am till 1-2pm in the afternoon. Hard core, I’m telling you. Well, it’s not as if I’m good tennis, but being able to last that long (under the hot Malaysian sun, mostly picking up balls), pure determination or stamina, I would say.


10. Aches all around

My body screams like an engine in need of oiling. Of course, it’s not as easy as it sounds. After passing a phase of life, there’s no looking back and turning the time around. Sure there are enhancement supplements and who-knows-what-else, but it can only take you so far, bundled up with uncalculated risks and dangers of side effects.


On the bright side, there are a few things you don’t need to worry about such as curfew, for instance. As you grow up, hopefully your parents will be more flexible about your whereabouts and times? Note: hopefully. But then again, what’s the use of going out so late at night when you would get sleepy and tired by that time anyway. Self-defeating, haih.
So you see, the lesson learnt here is to live life while you’re still young that is, you never know when your body would fail you. Do it keeping in mind that when you ARE old (yes, I’m barely in my early stages), you can reflect that

The reason why I’ve aged with lines showing, hair thinning, joints aching, hands
shaking…
…are signs or proof that I have LIVED, LOVED, GROWN not merely, but
to the fullest in this life and with no regrets that I remember of distinctively
today…

P.S. Please help me to age gracefully, God.

Beauty only lasts but for a moment.
We are loved for who we really are when we are old.